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being realistic won't get your du'as answered, but this will..

I have a theory that it is easier to get a big, “unrealistic” du’a answered than a small, realistic one.

Here's why:

When you make "realistic" du'as (you know, the ones that seem doable based on your current situation), you subconsciously put all the pressure on yourself.

"okay, I asked for this, now I have to figure out HOW to make it happen."

And then:

  • You get overwhelmed trying to figure out “how” and “when”

  • You lose excitement because, let's be honest, "realistic" isn't exactly thrilling

  • When things don't work out exactly as planned, you get discouraged and blame yourself or even worse Allah.

  • And eventually you think "well, I guess it just wasn't written for me" 🤷🏻‍♀️

No wonder we struggle with consistency!

But what happens when you make du'as SO BIG that you have no idea how it could happen?

That’s where it gets exiting. 

Everything shifts:

  • You KNOW you can't make it happen alone, so you truly rely on Allah

  • You actually get EXCITED to make your du'as again (no more forcing yourself!)

  • Instead of stressing about HOW, you focus on showing up and being ready for Allah's plan

  • Every day becomes this beautiful reminder of how powerful Allah is

  • And when that "impossible" thing actually happens? The imaan boost is INCREDIBLE!

I remember when I first started making these "unrealistic" du'as.

The consistency problem literally solved itself because I was genuinely excited to talk to Allah about these big dreams.

A moment where i could let go of my current struggles and focus on my future instead.

And when things started happening that I KNEW I couldn't have orchestrated myself? Subhan'Allah, there's no feeling like it.

That's why I created The Tie Your Camel Guide - to help you balance complete trust in Allah with the right actions.

This guide is specifically for you if:

  • You know how important du'a is but still struggle to stay consistent.

  • You want that deep connection with Allah AND see real results in your life.

  • You're tired of the whole "super motivated → totally unmotivated" cycle

Inside The Tie Your Camel Guide, I'll show you:

  • How to make du'as that actually excite you (so consistency becomes natural)

  • The perfect balance between trusting Allah and taking action

  • What to do when disappointment creeps in (and how to turn it around)

  • A simple system for your du'a practice that won't lead to burnout

  • How to recognize when your du'as ARE being answered (often in unexpected ways!)

As our beloved prophet ﷺ taught us, "Tie your camel, then put your trust in Allah."

Once you learn this balance, sister, EVERYTHING changes. InshaAllah, let's start this journey together today! ✨

With love and du'a,

- Lina ♡

Ps. I just opened the doors to my new du’a community where I’ll share weekly insights and strategies that will take your du’a to the next level inshAllah. Click here to join.